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There's a three-part interview with me at the LA Sex & Relationships Examiner. The primary reason I gave the interview was that the columnist, Suzi Fox, is doing a series on the real people in sex work -- which means the interview is not the usual negative one. It's not particularly a "how to" for phone sex like this blog is; but if you want to know more about being a PSO, and can stand to hear

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I had intended to hold off on this discussion of recent events at MyPhoneSite (MPS), in part because it has to do with financial domination, which is a fetish we have not really discussed here (and it's quite a complicated one). But upon hearing from a number of panicked phone sex operators, I decided I needed to address the subject as simply as can be done at this time. Working backwards, so to

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If you've been worried about the Google's latest unified privacy policy and how it might negatively affect you, check out the Electronic Frontier Foundation's helpful article: How to Remove Your Google Search History Before Google's New Privacy Policy Takes Effect.

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Phone sex can be as much fun as being there in-person -- or as awkward. If you don't want fumbling, elbows everywhere, ow-you're-on-my-hair, awkward kind of phone sex, keep reading. While most of this blog is devoted to helping PSOs be successful, and therefore offers tips and techniques on how to satisfy phone sex caller requests, the truth is that successful phone sex is equally dependent upon

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A good phone sex operator knows the signs of human arousal -- male and female. She knows them so she can describe them in detail, yes; but also so she can monitor caller response and use that for pacing the call.

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Just had to share this awesome video that Nola of Nola's House Of Phone Sex sent to me. Mano-A-Mano shows two straight guys competing for the same job -- a gay phone sex operator position. As the saying goes, it's funny 'cuz it's true.

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In part one, I ought to have convinced you of the importance of blogs and blogging for PSOs. But before you run out and start up a blog, there are a few things you should know... Yes, you can start a blog for free; but don't. I know, I know; this blog is hosted for free at Blogger. But comparing this blog with your phone sex operator blog is like comparing apples to oranges. ...However, it does

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OK, so blogging isn't exactly "new" -- except perhaps in terms of the historical scope of phone sex, but I'm making a play on the "is the new black" snowclone cliche. In short, I think blogging is the best method of trolling and marketing yourself as a PSO. Blogging is both a verb, the act of writing and publishing, and also a noun, a name for software or Content Management System (CMS). In

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Of equal importance to your golden voice is your golden ear. In fact, listening may be even more important than talking. You've probably heard the old saying, "God gave you two ears and one mouth, so you should listen twice as much as you speak." I think that's especially true in the phone sex industry. How do you know what story to spin, what buttons to push, if you don't really know what a

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Phone sex is based in fantasy. Even those calls which seem more like therapeutic counseling or friendly chit-chat sessions occur because the caller believes in the fantasy of the girl on the other end of the line. This is not to say that you, the PSO, are not truly a sexy (understanding, dominating, garter-belt-and-stocking-not-sweat-pant-wearing etc.) person -- but the persona you cultivate and

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Despite a promise from a show producer, I wasn't notified in advance of the Anderson Cooper piece air date; apparently it aired yesterday. Overall, the specific discussion on phone sex work was handled tactfully and rather respectfully. Though I still have to giggle when phone sex work is considered so "unconventional" when sex work is "the oldest profession." *wink* What was most upsetting,

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Today there will be a taping of an Anderson Cooper show -- the daytime one, not on CNN -- in which phone sex work will again be discussed. I am privy to this knowledge as I was in talks with a show producer to be on the show; but declined as anonymity, so important to me, really couldn't be arranged. In talking with the producer, and the other producers of the media I have been involved with of

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Jay Leno mentioned the Good Morning America / ABC phone sex piece last night in his monologue on The Tonight Show. He lead the story with the context of the increase in the number of moms getting into the phone sex business in the recent economy, and made a joke about President Obama creating jobs. Leno then made mention of what your mom might be up to when you call her and she asks you to hold

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One potentially misleading statement made on the Good Morning America phone sex segment is creating a lot of drama. Near the end of the segment, Elizabeth Hasselbeck said, "For women who do not have bank accounts, some of the phone sex companies pay directly to a gift card." This is raising concerns about everything from taxes and IRS industry scrutiny to alternative payment methods and confusion

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Thursday, December 22, 2011, yours truly began the first half of the traditional holiday road trip, a round-trip "there and back," with each way a 11-12 hour drive. The first leg, the way "there," found me, mid morning, pulled over behind the car wash at an interstate gas station. I was there to safely call into Chicago's WGN radio, to be interviewed by Mike McConnell about phone sex work. (Oh,

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Tomorrow, Thursday, December 22, 2011, I'm going to be on WGA Radio discussing phone sex work with Mike McConnell. I'm super excited because this live show will be a continuation of what they've been doing all week long, featuring different job opportunities -- which means we'll be focusing on the work involved in being a PSO. That's a large part of what I felt was missing from the Good Morning

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Lingerie blogger A Slip Of A Girl has recently become a phone sex operator, specializing, of course, in lingerie fetish calls and crossdressing. She's written a great introductory primer on crossdressing which even moderately experienced PSOs will likely find useful.

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It's been very busy here since Monday's Good Morning America segment on phone sex aired. Overall, the response has been as expected: a filled email inbox, a few new clients, some backlash from fearful-of-competition annoyed PSOs, a plethora of unintelligent and unkind comments at other sites, and sprinklings of supportive comments and posts too. I'm not the only one feeling the aftereffects of

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Whether you're a new phone sex operator, an experienced pro looking to add to your sex toy and tool collection, or a caller with an itch to scratch, I've got an exclusive discount for readers here at Phone Sex Secrets! Just enter code PHONESEXSECRETS at the checkout at Sexclectic and save 20% on your entire order. There's no order minimum, either.

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There's been some response to the Good Morning America show segment which any new phone sex operator is likely, unhappily, going to have to deal with as she begins her new line of work. This stuff has always existed, but it's more pronounced now due to the increase in interest in phone sex work. In many PSO message boards and groups, there are actually threads and conversations going on right

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Yes, I'm "Lynn" (and my husband is "Mike") in this "moms entering phone sex work" segment which aired today on GMA: video platformvideo managementvideo solutionsvideo player I wanted to share few quick thoughts regarding the Good Morning America segment on moms who are professional phone sex operators. In Summary... The overall tone of the segment was focused on the moms are embarrassed,

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I'm already seeing an increase in traffic here at Phone Sex Secrets in response to the brief discussion on ABC's The View which mentioned the segments appearing Monday morning on other ABC news shows. Along with that, there's been an increase in emails from moms and others who are interested in finding the "best" phone sex companies to work for. I began writing responses, but, after so much

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As I mentioned, I'll be participating in a national television morning show segment about moms entering the phone sex business. I've been holding off on announcing the show and air date because I was told it may be bumped for other news and event coverage, but today on The View Whoopi Goldberg announced that Elizabeth Hasselbeck is the one reporting on the story and that it will air Monday,

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Working in the adult industry, especially when you are an independent, can be very isolating. It's not merely an isolating experience -- it's an isolated life. For the most part, the culture we live in doesn't accept sex work. The families we were born to, raised in, marry into or otherwise join, even our circle of friends all have reasons why we ought not subject them to our choice of

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What hours/days of the week are the best to make money during? How many hours must I devote to my phone sex business? I'm starting this part-time and my schedule is unpredictable, can I still make money? Do I have to keep my phone line on for hours? Can I only be available by appointment? I'm asked a lot about the hours a phone sex operator needs to work. So much so, I'm covering this again. But

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I started Phone Sex Secrets with the idea of consolidating information and quickly found myself fielding questions, and then performing consulting work. (Yay me!) While I have topics I plan to discuss, I often find myself responding to those issues clients raise as well as questions posed by readers brave enough to ask -- yet I often don't know much about "who" a lot of you even are... I

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New phone sex operators often ask, "How Much Should I Charge?" Experienced PSOs often question this from time to time as well. And clients are too often clueless on the subject. While I discussed some of this before, let's talk specifically about phone sex rates. First rule: You are here to make money. And that means make a profit. There's a lot more work involved in what a phone sex

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PayPerCall has been in business for 14 years, and they've been serving adult line clients for as long as they've been in business. Now that I'm sharing tips and insider info on the phone sex business, especially for independent PSOs, I thought it was high time I investigated this company and had a chat with the vice president of the company. In the past 14 years, have you seen any trends in the

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Two new features have launched at My Phone Site this week. The first new feature is the ability for the website owner to send newsletters. Anytime a My Phone Site customer becomes one of your site's clients (i.e. calls, makes a purchase from, or messages one of the girls listed on your site), they will be subscribed to your newsletter. (Customers, of course, will be able to unsubscribe to the

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Lots of things going on behind the scenes here at Phone Sex Secrets. Along with working with my regular phone sex clients and PSO consultant work here, I'm working on another article for the wonderful Geisha Diaries and -- what's causing a bunch of flurry-scurry dialog -- is the fact that yours truly is supposed to be appearing on a major television morning show in a segment about moms entering

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When it comes to the more physical punishing sides of BDSM phone sex, there's no getting around the noises. The proper sounds of spankings, croppings, etc. are essential to these calls. For submissive PSOs... You'll hear all sorts of silly "options" for getting around these noises, such as smacking raw chicken or using a ruler on a table or pillow, but they are not recommended. These are

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Whether your an erotica author or a PSO, you should consider making additional money by recording and selling erotic stories at Hot Talking. While phone sex recordings aren't necessarily limited to actual stories (they may consist of many things -- from recording your own masturbation sounds to guided masturbation, from erotic hypnosis to to sounds of spanking sessions, etc.), at Hot Talking the

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I'm still not used to this consulting thing. I'm proficient at the actual consulting, sharing what I know, helping people find what they need, connecting them to the right people, etc.; but I'm still not used to juggling helping so many people at such different levels of experience all at the same time -- and maintaining a blog here. My intentions to get to one subject or another, to do a series

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For tax purposes, you are either an employee (with income/compensation reported on a W-2) or an independent contractor (with income/compensation over $600 per year reported on a 1099). If you are employed by a phone sex company, you'll proceed with your W-2, like any other job. However, as an independent PSO -- whether or not you receive a 1099 -- you'll prepare your taxes as any other

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NiteFlirt has made some changes. Most of them are cosmetic, but a few of them are useful: * In the upper right corner of any page is an account widget which allows you to change your availability, update your phone number, see your balance, check for new mail, and has links to "My Customers" and "My Listings." * The feedback link has been moved to its own tab to make it easier for customers to

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I don't normally settle for quick link round-up posts but, as I'm so busy, this seems a fair way to keep you informed and make a post... Av Flox on the problems using Google+ -- not completely related to phone sex or even "adult" profiles, but certainly enlightening for those of us who dare to dabble in mature themes. While you are there, give The Story Behind Dot-XXX: We Still Oppose It and

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I've spent the last few months playing with the latest phone sex platform, which seems not only trustworthy, but bankable: My Phone Site. In fact, I've found the site so nice that I've moved a number of my PSO consultation clients and phone sex fantasy callers there. Like the others, this platform takes the typical 30%. Clients may, connect via the web, and be a member, or just dial using the

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Sooner or later, every PSO has a customer service issue. While excellent customer service is key in this business, even the very best of us eventually has a complaint, receives bad feedback, or just plain knows a call went wrong. Why? Because phone sex is a very individualized service, and no one can please everyone all the time. I was reminded of this fact twice this week during my web reading

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A number of phone sex operators, especially those who've come from escorting, light upon the idea of ordering business cards or even postcards to discreetly drop around town, when they travel, etc. This practice is quite common in escorting and other sorts of sex work; go to a bar or a club, drop off a few cards for the patrons to find. It's a form of real world trolling for customers, but it

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Make sure all your devices have charged batteries. This includes phones, Bluetooth headests, etc. Make sure you own batteries are recharged. Be awake and prepared to offer your best services. Make sure your voice is rested; have your refreshments nearby. Turn your phone lines off periodically to treat your voice and spirit to respites, to use the restroom, etc. Prepare your space: Get away

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Those of you who know me -- or have at least worked with me -- know that I'm always preaching about The Cardinal Rule in sex work: Never Break The Veil Of Fantasy. Some might argue that it's not as important as the safety rules, but, frankly, breaking the veil is outing yourself, making you vulnerable to threats. It's a safety breach. And breaking the veil will kill your career. For more on

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One vital key to providing excellent phone sex services is to keep notes on clients. You never know when a caller will call back and it would be a shame for you not to remember him. Put all you've learned about a caller and his kink to use by keeping notes. Many phone sex platforms provide a place to keep notes on customers -- however, don't keep all those eggs in one basket. If the site has a

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How do you prepare yourself for first calls as a PSO? Here are a few tips. I do not advise "practice calls" with people you know. In most cases, calls with (or around) people you know will only heighten your insecurity and discomfort, add to your performance anxiety, or otherwise distract you from the task at hand. Practice calls with lovers or former lovers are ill-advised as that's not how

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Just as you do not have the right to help yourself to any photos you find online, no one has the right to use yours -- but policing and protecting your images can be costly in terms of both time and money. To protect your images, put your name and/or URL in text on your images or use watermarks -- especially on those displayed on your profile, at your blog, etc. That way, if anyone "borrows"

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With the ever-increasing bans on public smoking, there's an increase in smoking fetish phone sex services. If you're a smoker, this is good news for you. You might even be able to make additional money selling your cigarette butts. But if you don't smoke, don't try to cash in on this trend. Never fake smoking; non smokers sound ridiculous -- like they're slurping soup off a spoon. Either

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Some companies and platforms for independents offer means through which your clients may broaden their experiences i.e. spend more money. Which means you can make more money. These include, but are not limited to, prerecorded phone sex or audio sex stories; texting; cyber-sex chats; webcam sex; custom erotic stories; sales of photos; sales of personal items (worn panties, stockings, etc.); and

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Vibrators are a phone sex operator's best friends. While not as vital to the business as an actual phone, sex toys run a close second. Personally, I have a big old box full of vibrators and dildos (one for every itch I want to scratch *wink*), and they come in handy professionally too. I recommend vibrators over dildos because vibes make noise -- very important over the phone. And you can suck

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Since Gracie Passette has re-launched Sex Kitten, she has not opened the site's popular sexy blog feed aggregator to new submissions. The Sex Kitten Feed uses the approved sites' RSS feeds and displays the most recent posts or additions in one place. Not only do these sites get exposure at the site's Feed page, but there's nifty widgets that are literally showing at hundreds, if not thousands,

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While phone sex offers a flexible schedule, a smart PSO knows she can make more if she keeps to some sort of work schedule. Like times of day, there are seasonal changes that impact a PSO's income. This was one of the biggest surprises I discovered as an escort entering the phone sex industry. There are many differences, of course, between working with clients in the flesh and working with them

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You can make great cock sucking sounds with the help of props. Popsicles and other frozen treats are even better than using vibes and dildos for making gagging sounds, wet sloppy noises etc. Not only is this more tasty than most toys, but Popsicles make fantastic gooey drool that you can greedily slurp up. And when all the sucking and lapping is done, your callers will love hearing about the

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There are a number of phone sex directories, including those that offer free phone sex listings, complete with buttons that show if you, the PSO, are available or not (these are typically linked to specific phone sex platforms, so look closely!). While phone sex directories differ from phone sex top sites (which rank their listings by "votes" or clicks in), both usually offer a free link or free

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BDSM is a really huge umbrella covering a number of very large umbrellas. BDSM is a compound acronym derived from several terms: bondage and discipline (B&D), dominance and submission (D&S), and sadism and masochism (S&M). One reason BDSM phone sex fantasy play is so popular is that the play is limitless. There's no real threat... No pain threshold or risk of doing real damage, so you don't

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There's always lot of discussion around the subject of accents, especially around non-native US accents. Many will advise you not to mention it, but I think that's ridiculous. Obviously the caller is going to hear it. Even if you have had voice training, it's difficult to maintain such a different vocal pattern when your supposed to be relaxing into such intimate moments -- and what if the call

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Can I post on Craigslist? Can I post on Craigslist's newest site? As of September 3, 2010, Craigslist bowed to pressure and ended their Adult Services classified's section -- and that was the "new" Craig's List option as prior to that, such classifieds were listed at "Erotic Services." There is no new Craigslist site. Can I still place an ad for my perfectly-legal phone sex services on

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Many phone sex companies will offer prerecorded phone sex listings, so that clients can get their fix when you are not around or may have a "sample" or way to "test" what your services may be like. These are typically sold at a per minute rate, just like live calls; but a number of sites offer the ability for you to sell your own recordings, such as an MP3, at a single flat fee. The question

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I'm often asked, "What are the best times for phone sex operators to be available -- to make the most money?" This is asked not only by those considering starting phone sex work, but by those already in the field who want to make more money. There is no one-time-suits-all answer -- because there's no one demographic for all callers. Even when the demographics or sexual fantasies are the same,

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As my regular clients know (both my Phone Sex Secrets clients and my regular phone sex callers), I had a family emergency. All is settled again now (knock wood) and the blogging resumes!

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For those of you who have already taken the dive into modeling, or are certain there's no down-side to doing so, here are a few more tips. * Be sure to get written rights to use the photos, including for phone sex work; appearing in them is not the right to use them. * You can often make deals with professional photographers, allowing the photographer to make additional money off selling the

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A number of folks have asked for more help on creating PSO profiles, "about" pages, etc. Again, without knowing all the details of your business, niche and goals (i.e. personal individualized consulting), I can only offer additional general advice... But here are some more thoughts. When creating your online presence for your phone sex business, it is important that you balance both a general

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A professional phone sex operator knows her voice is her instrument, just as any singer or performer does -- and takes care of it accordingly. Here are some tips on taking care of your money maker. Prevention/Protection Keeping a beverage nearby is probably a no-brainer, but here are some things to consider when selecting one: * cool beverages are refreshing, but warm beverages are more

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One of the things I find very useful in creating phone sex characters is to view them as real people, with real personalities and motivations -- just like characters in novels and films. This way, you can create more realistic characters for your callers to interact with as well as more easily immerse yourself more in the role, reacting as that character rather than trying to think of something

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In part one we covered the importance of your PSO photos and why you shouldn't use your own photos (or, if you do, how to do so safely). But if you don't use your own photos, what then? The first thing you must know is that you do not have the right to help yourself to any photos you find online. This is true for everyone, but the potential kick in the pants can be much worse in phone sex work

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One thing you'll need for your PSO profile is at least one visual image. While it is possible to be profitable in phone sex without a photograph, using instead some other graphic (illustration, logo, etc.), it certainly can make things more difficult. Men, are, after all visual creatures, and when they look for phone sex, photos are part of what they visually scan before deciding to read more

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OK, so you've decided to go ahead and become an independent phone sex operator. You've got your tech stuff (phone line &/or number, billing, etc.) settled, now what? First you'll need to select your niche or specialty. It doesn't mean you have to be a one-tick phone pony, but, as discussed, it's very difficult to market yourself as "everything for everyone" in this business especially. Second

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One of the easiest ways to become an independent work at home phone sex operator is to use a platform company -- a company that provides the technological backbone in terms of verifying adult callers, performing the billing, connecting the calls, and disbursing fees to the PSO. These service platform companies are like eBay or PayPal; they offer the transaction technology for a slice of the

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Based on emailed requests for personalized assistance and consulting help for new phone sex operators (as well as men who wanted referrals to great PSOs, and a few women who wanted to talk about why their men use the services of PSOs, escorts and other adult services), I'm now consulting, providing referrals and open to general phone sex discussion via NiteFlirt. Please message me there to

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There are differences between phone sex callers, erotica readers, viewers of porn videos, subscribers to Internet porn sites, those who go to strip clubs, those who use pay for the companionship of escorts, those who pay for services of real world dungeons, etc. Even if all these services fall into the same perverted niche, say a BDSM or foot fetish itch, the "perv" has selected the specific

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Unless you work for an on location phone sex company or otherwise must take whatever calls are dispatched to you, you'll have the option to be selective about the types of calls you take, the kinds of fantasies you'll create. For most independent PSOs, and those who work for companies, the question is, "Should you specialize or be a generalist?" Your personal tastes or preferences aside, the

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Companies hiring phone sex operators and platforms for independents vary from well-established for decades to just starting up. No matter how established a phone sex service is, it will have a reputation or two -- sometimes both good and bad reputations, depending who you are listening to. This is why it is imperative that you treat looking for a phone sex job as seriously as you would any other

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Once upon a time, back when I started working as a phone sex operator, you weren't allowed to use cell phones for calls; there was a "land lines only" rule. The theory was that cell phone signals weren't reliable enough -- at least not to preclude the ability for clients to complain about it, resulting in more customer service work. Now, however, PSOs and clients use mobile phones, Voice over IP

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According to this article, Internet users hang up on phone sex, it is: IT'S not only retailers struggling to adjust to the new digital era. While the adult entertainment industry in general has flourished online, one sector has become all but extinct. Phone sex - based on the 1900 numbers usually listed in newspaper and magazine classified sections - will soon be a thing of the past. Around

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Before you even begin your phone sex career, you should give some thought to your options. There are a few basic types of phone sex service companies, although the combination possibilities of types of dispatch, call connections, etc. provide nearly endless variations. A good staring place for beginning to narrow down your options is to think about where you'd like to perform phone sex: at home

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In many ways, the sex phone biz is a lot like escorting: Men seek companionship, the possibility of sexual fantasy, or at the least the freedom to talk about it without judgment; you're paid to deliver it. These men are single, dating, divorced, widowed, married (or otherwise living in a committed relationship) -- in all stages of relationships. It's important to understand and accept this as

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A very popular question; two "R"s and an "M" have all asked me to recommend a few good phone sex companies. Well, dears, as I have never worked for a phone sex company, I cannot recommend any based on personal experience... And most of my friends and cohorts in the phone sex business are also independents, and the last time they worked for a phone sex company was so long ago, it's likely not the

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As many people working in the adult industry do not disclose what they really do to family and friends (even with the most open-minded folks, there will be places and times it's just not appropriate to talk about), working in the adult industry can be a very isolating experience. So having coworkers, comrades with which to conspire and confess, can be emotionally beneficial -- not to mention the

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"G" asks: I notice you refer to female phone sex providers -- what about men? Aren't there any males making money in phone sex? Dear "G", I do specifically refer to female PSOs because A) that's naturally my professional experience, and B) because phone sex, like most of the adult industry, is primarily built on money spent by men -- and as such, it has a largely female workforce (at least at

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I'm starting to get to all the questions being sent in; there's quite a lot, so be patient. Here are a few things I feel I must make clear before I get to them all -- and to any new ones which may come along... After nearly two decades working in the sex industry, with at least half that time as a PSO, I don't claim to know it all. Even a lifetime in this or any other industry would preclude

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I haven't discussed much about the actual "sex" in phone sex, yet; and what I have said may be more than a little overwhelming. So let me clarify a few things for beginners... Whether your phone sex session is based on an erotic masturbatory session, a theoretical discussion, or a more personal counseling type of conversation, you will be exposed to a wide variety of sexual fantasies and

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An independent phone sex operator is one who doesn't work for a phone sex company; she works for herself. Generally speaking, a phone sex line business is easier to set up than most entrepreneurial efforts or home businesses; there are no license, certification, or permit mandates. Like many self-employed people, they may invest deeply in their business and work completely on their own. Or they

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I have to confess that I've never worked for a phone sex company; as a former independent escort, I felt comfortable and knowledgeable enough to be an independent PSO. However, over the years I've met enough successful women who readily admit that working for a company first was the best thing they did for their phone sex careers. Here's what they've shared with me about working for a phone sex

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Call Back services (and those companies which allow for clients to schedule specific times for phone sex calls) have perks for both PSOs and callers alike. As with blind dates or a salesman's "cold call," simply knowing what the call is to be about -- and when it will be -- allows for a more specific and satisfying call. Pros: Both the caller and the phone sex operator have the delicious

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If you're not working for a dispatch phone sex company, and sometimes even if you are, your phone sex job may involve what's called "trolling." Trolling, so named for the supposed similarities to fishing, is supposed to be the delicate art of baiting the hook and luring potential callers in chat rooms, message boards, etc. to call phone sex lines. The theory behind trolling is that each

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There are two primary options for where a phone sex girl works: At Home or On Location. Work From Home Phone Sex Work Most phone sex work is done by women working at home. Since incoming calls are routed via automated system or live dispatcher to women at their private numbers (numbers shielded by the phone sex service system), the call then becomes a private conversation between two consenting

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There are two main ways of connecting one-on-one phone sex calls (i.e. not adult party or chat lines): Direct Connection and Callbacks. Direct Connection Calls are those in which directly after dealing with the matter of billing, the caller remains on the line and is connected to a phone sex operator. Not only does this mean that you will be on your fantasy way in a matter of minutes, but

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There are two ways of routing or dispatching phone sex calls: Automated and Live. Automated Dispatch: Automated Dispatch Phone Sex Services provide automated (non-human) routing to the next available phone sex operator. This usually means neither the caller nor the PSO knows who they will be speaking with or even what the fantasy subject will be. Automated dispatch services almost always use

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I've been getting a number of confessions, questions, advice, etc. from PSOs and clients alike -- and I'm happy for them too! -- but I wanted to let you all know that I won't be posting them until I get a few more basics covered. So hold your horses, they'll be here soon! And feel free to keep those cards and letters (emails) coming!

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900 (or 976) Numbers: Because the 900 number versions of these services are billed to your phone, and anyone in your home could pick up the phone and dial them, the conversational content of these calls are regulated by organizations like the FCC. That means that your PSO's conversations will be limited to euphemisms, code words and phrases (i.e. "man-meat," "brown-eye" or "do it"), to protect

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Each of us is different and has our own unique reactions so I want to include many voices on the subject of phone sex work, including those who claim to have worked in the industry and did not like it. One such example is this piece called The Tantalizing World of Phone Sex in which Joyce Ventimiglia writes: Many would agree that phone sex is different [from stripping and appearing in adult

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I've been doing a lot of talking about how much work is involved in being a phone sex pro, so I thought I should mention some of the real benefits. No experience, education or certification is required. You need only to be able to provide valid proof that you are an adult of legal age to work in the adult industry, and, generally with the same documents that prove your age, provide "Right to

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There are some similarities between phone sex and writing erotica, and some differences too. How Phone Sex Work Is Like Being An Erotica Author While you won't be expected to actually swing from the chandeliers, a phone sex girl may be required to describe it. So, like any good author of erotica, you'll need to know basic anatomy, how bodies move, how genitalia responds, etc. You will need to

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"Taboo" is one of the most oft used words in phone sex. The lure of the "No Taboos!" listings is a siren call -- but not always for the same reasons. Technically speaking, a taboo is something socially defined as forbidden. But, culture being what it is, what is taboo for one person is everyday same-old-same-old for another. Since the majority of phone sex clients are older men (for today's

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Continuing along in the What You Need To Know series... In Part One, we covered how being a phone sex operator is different than talking dirty with your own lover. However, it still is talking about sex. A lot of different forms of sex and fetishes. And not always for fantasy reasons either. Or at least not such obvious ones, anyway. A great number of callers prefer to talk about their

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The first thing you need to know about becoming a PSO isn't what company to work for, how much money you can make with them, or even how to be an independent phone sex operator. No, what you need to know first is just what the actual work of the call itself entails. Professional phone sex is a lot like phone sex you may have had with your lover -- only it's a lot more difficult. For one thing,

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